Define My Day Blog
Each Define My Day is 4 Weeks
We receive a lot of questions about why Define My Day is only 28 days and not 31. You may have had that one yourself. Here's the answer... We don't want you to schedule your life around a calendar! Define My Day is a guide to live life, not a schedule. We want you to...
Be Stronger Than Hate
Words matter. The words we speak to ourselves matter. The words we speak to others matter. The words we repeat matter.
Morning Routine is Crucial
Reference Links: Tony Robbins Priming Routine Miracle Morning I credit a solid morning routine with much of my personal progress. It starts my day off on the right foot by allowing me to attack the day focused and calm. Positive or negative, it may very well be the...
Why Meditate?
Meditation has been one of the hardest habits for me to create. I love to meditate but every day I fight myself to actually perform the act. I feel much better after meditation and I think I owe my sense of increased focus to meditation, so why do I still have such a...
Why I use Define My Day
A happy family... that was my priority but somehow it wasn't happening. I told myself that working long hours was for the benefit of my kids. Lynn and I were fighting. The kids weren't happy. The more work I put in, the worse it got. I wanted stability, a good...
It’s Time to Take Control Of Your Destiny
I recently read this article about the increasing pay of the McDonald's CEO. He now makes $21.8 million while many of McDonald's employees live below the poverty line. The article goes on to describe his increasing pay, corporate pay ratios and generally illustrates...
The Problem with the Hustle
Hustle, 10X, work hard, the grind... we see it every day. We're told that if we aren't grinding it out... wearing ourselves out... we're not working hard enough. I say that's garbage. I'm certainly not against hard work. Far from it. I think most Americans have been...
Something Good You Can Do For a Random Stranger
So, smile at someone. Even if it makes them think you’re a wacko. You never know who’s day you might make better. The act of giving someone a kindness might even make you feel good too.
Thinking of Suicide
If you are thinking about suicide, tell someone. If you don't have someone near you that would understand, tell a stranger. Someone out there will care. Someone out there probably already does. You may not want to feel embarrassment or pity. That's ok. You will feel...